Hi Ladies and Company, I just wanted to know ya’ll opinion. Is the saying “there’s someone for everyone,” really true? Is it really a perfect relationship partner out there in the world for everyone? Or is that just something ya’ll have forced yourself to believe? – Someone’s Everything
Dear Someone’s Everything,
As a Christian, I was raised to believe that God has a divine plan for everyone. For some, God may have a perfect partner and for others He might have some other plan outlined for you. Whether you are a Believer or not, I have found it to be true that you shouldn’t force life to do what you want it to do, whether that means with your relationship, friends, work or anything at all. We often have this tendency as women to fantasize and romanticize our futures, which is fine until we limit ourselves to our dream plans. Looking for the “perfect partner” will lead you to disappointment because trust me, no one is perfect. Is there someone for everyone? Maybe, but take my advice: focus on yourself first. Live life and enjoy every second of it without worrying about adding another person into your mix. One of my favorite quotes is “what is for you, will not pass you.” So do not be distracted by what you think is passing you or what you think you might be missing out on. Enjoy where you are and who you are with because each moment is a precious gift that shouldn’t be taken for granted.
Nothing But Love,