Bonjour Ladies & Company. Me and my beau have been together for about a year. He’s a really good guy and we want to commit. The problem is my family. They don’t approve because he isn’t Black. They have always been very proud of their heritage. Should I accept his proposal or not. I’m so confused. – To Swirl Or Not
Dear To Swirl or Not,
Love has no color, shape or size! Times have changed and we are all free to express our love freely with whoever we want too. If a man loves you and treats you right you should definitely accept the proposal because these days a good man is hard to find. If you family loves you at the end of the day they probably just want to see you happy. They might not approve at first and may even push away for some time but I’m sure they’ll definitely come around. Sometimes families or individuals can be stuck in the past but love conquers all. Your family may not be open to interracial dating but once they see how this man values their daughter, they will have to open their minds to change. Love has no racial identity and I’m a big supporter of interracial relationships. At the end of the day I’d pray on it because God has the final say so! I can understand the difficult in this situation because you don’t want to have to choose between love and family. Family does mean a lot to me and their opinion would matter a great deal but if that’s the man God sent to you, it’ll all work out in due time and God will change the hearts of your family to be more open minded.
Open to Love,