It’s okay to to be the only person you save. It’s not selfish. More than likely you’ve already come across, or will come across in the future a situation where you have to choose yourself over someone else. Whether it be emotional support or a listening ear or whatever it is that that person needs – sometimes you aren’t the one who is supposed to provide it. Especially if you are struggling with your sanity, emotions, getting your life together, etc. They always tell you on an airplane to put your mask on first. You’re no help to anyone if you can’t breath. Focus on getting your mask on and breathing, then help others.